...and that is why it is not a good idea to have delusions about marriage as a final destination, as the "happily ever after," because without either of us putting the effort in, it very well could end up like I described. I can see it working out too though. It is about learning to balance when to build forts and when to get things done, just like it is when you're NOT married. As other factors change (outside or within the relationship), it will be necessary to reevaluate and possibly shift that balance to maintain a healthy tension between these two distinct people trying to live as a part of each others lives.
And I imagine that to be immensely rewarding.
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Okay okay so that last one was a depressing post. Upon thinking about it overnight, I would like to retro-conclude it with this: